Kim dealt with back pain for years after giving birth to her daughter in 2013. She tried yoga, physical therapy, the works. Nothing helped. Finally in 2019, she got an MRI. We all assumed it would show a herniated disc and that she might end up needing outpatient surgery. Boy, were we in for a surprise.
On October 16, 2019, we met with a specialist to review the results of Kim's MRI. CANCER. Not just any cancer -- one we didn't even know was a thing because hardly anyone is diagnosed with it (0.5% of all soft tissue sarcomas) -- leiomyosarcoma of the inferior vena cava. For those who feel the urge Google this like I did, I'll save you the time. The inferior vena cava is your body's largest vein, carrying blood back to your heart from your lower body. So we were looking at a super rare cancer, with limited research and funding behind it, that happened to be lodged in a place where it could pass directly into her heart and kill her instantly.
At that moment, while the rest of us were still trying to grasp the overwhelm of this shocking information, Kim put on her armor, and she went to war. Kim had emergency surgery on Halloween of 2019 to remove the tumor. It was an incredibly dangerous 7-hour surgery, but Kim made it through. And the best news -- clear margins! We thought we had dodged an M16 headed straight for us.
But one year later we learned that the cancer had spread. It was everywhere: at the surgery site, multiple bone tumors, and in her liver. Her oncologist apologized, stamped a 2-year max expiration date on her forehead, and sent her home. And so Kim did what she had done before: she prepared for battle.
With Mom's help, Kim found an amazing sarcoma specialist at KU Med and began treatment. Her second line of treatment gave us almost a year of no new growth! We rejoiced! But the cancer wasn't through. It learned, adapted, and fought back.
Kim went to Siteman for additional options and began a clinical trial early in 2022. Unfortunately the trial was unsuccessful, so Kim went back to KU. She navigated through three more treatment options before the cancer took her on February 15, 2023.
Now Kim is finally at peace and cancer free. Cancer won the battles, but Kim won the war. Kim fought so hard and had limited options because of the rarity of leiomyosarcoma.
This cancer is absolutely brutal. It is aggressive and it is smart. We need more research in this space. If together we can give even one person one more year with their loved ones through our donations, that will be a blessing and an amazing testament to Kim's life. Thank you all so much for your support!
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Name | Date | Amount | Comments |
Nora Yelton | 12/31/2023 | $206.90 | Happy heavenly birthday in heaven tomorrow honey. Love you | Nora Yelton | 11/22/2023 | $206.90 | I love and miss you honey. Thanksgiving won’t be the same without you but we’re having it at my house again and everyone will be here. Hope they have scalloped oysters in heaven | David Haesemeier | 04/30/2023 | $1,005.00 | Memorial | Precise Forms Inc | 03/06/2023 | $104.47 | From a grateful and admiring client that Kim took Amazing care of who Also Honors her inspiring legacy, strength, and courage. | Lori Dutoit Fox | 03/04/2023 | $26.08 | Thinking of you during this difficult time. | Immanuel Lutheran | 02/27/2023 | $51.85 | In memory of Kimberly Haesemeier. Sending prayers of comfort and peace to you and your family. Your friends at ILS. | Jenifer Seaver | 02/25/2023 | $36.39 | Praying for peace and comfort as you all navigate the coming days and months. | Nora Yelton | 02/23/2023 | $25.00 | From a special friend at church in honor of my beautiful,talented daughter. I love you honey. | Cereal Ingredients | 02/23/2023 | $103.39 | Sincere condolences to Kim's family and the Miller Group family. From her friends here at Cereal Ingredients and GPAL. | The Marketing Team (The Miller Group) | 02/22/2023 | $103.39 | Honoring Kim's inspiring legacy, strength, and courage. | Larry & Colleen Haesemeier | 02/22/2023 | $515.72 | Kimmie was a beautiful person, both in body and soul. No matter what she was going through, she always had a smile. Kim was strong, courageous, and lived her faith every day! We loved her like a daughter. | Lana Schulze | 02/20/2023 | $52.39 | Debbie Peterson | 02/20/2023 | $51.85 | Betsy Lange | 02/20/2023 | $25.00 | For a devoted and loving wife and mother, and a true warrior when it came to battling cancer. The peace of God be with your family. Betsy Lange | Kacper & Heather Jesiotr | 02/20/2023 | $103.39 | We pray for God's comfort and peace for your family during this unimaginable time. May He bless you and give you all strength to overcome. | Community Bank | 02/20/2023 | $103.39 | Ronda Aversman | 02/20/2023 | $41.54 | Kim, your faith and courage in the face of such a deadly disease will forever be inspirational!! Now rest easy in God's loving arms! | Stacey Perry | 02/20/2023 | $258.01 | May God bless Kim's family. She will be missed. From the Midwest Trust family. | Joseph Russell | 02/19/2023 | $1,000.00 | Gaye Golden | 02/19/2023 | $26.08 | Thoughts and Prayers | Rachel Hamby | 02/18/2023 | $103.39 | This donation is in memory of a sweet woman, Kim, and her brave battle against cancer. It is also in honor of our dear friend Kristen, who fought alongside her sister. We love you! ~ Becky, Kayla, Lisa, Rachel, and Susan | Farmers Insurance Automation Team | 02/17/2023 | $299.25 | In memory of Kimberly Haesemeier from Friends at Farmers Automation Team | AF Group Team | 02/17/2023 | $51.85 | Sending our condolences to Kim's friends, family and her Robert E. Miller family. Sincerely, Friends from United Heartland, Accident Fund and Third Coast Underwriters | Anna Fricke | 02/17/2023 | $103.39 | Shannon Hilding | 02/17/2023 | $156.55 | Susan Stasi | 02/17/2023 | $103.39 | Sean Miller | 02/17/2023 | $258.01 | Anonymous Friend | 02/17/2023 | $309.56 | Kim was truly a bright light in this world and dear friend. I know I will see her again | Kim Haesemeier’ | 02/17/2023 | $100.00 | To my beautiful daughter that put up a hard fight. | Chris M | 02/17/2023 | $258.01 | Julie Athey | 02/17/2023 | $102.02 | Kristen Allred | 02/17/2023 | $102.02 |
Total | $5,994.18 |